Tomorrow u may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well...Here is a girl, who is as educated as you ; Who is earning as much as you ;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are ;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or
your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a
system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary
achievements.
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, as much as you do for 25 years of her life ;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people
who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your
family name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef
from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new
circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is
expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at
the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain ;
to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to ;
and is learning just like you are, as to what you want from her ; and
is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is
too demanding, or if she learns faster than you.
One, who has
her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her
workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing
to put all that on the back-burner to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities.
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met.
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her
some
and trust her.
One, who just wants one thing from
you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your
unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your
understanding, or love, if you may call it that.
But not many guys understand this...
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